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Story Setup

Choose a Title about Sexual Issues

Sex and Sexuality

Sex and Sexuality

Here's an example for inspiration

Make a visual story about your sex life. These title ideas will help you tell a story about what your sexual preferences, your desires, or the role sex plays in your life. You can use one of these, or be inspired to make your own.

Title Ideas:

    A Lifeline of a Good Sex Life

    A Timeline of a Good Sexual Experience

    A Timeline of a Typical Sexual Experience

    What Gets Me in the Mood

    My Turnoffs and Turnons

    A Timeline of a Good Sexual Memory

    A Timeline of a Fantasy

    A Timeline of a Sex When It’s Bad

    My Erogenous Zones

    A Timeline of a Good Time By Myself

    A Timeline of the Perfect Aftercare

    What My Partner Likes

    What I Like

    A Lifeline of My Sexual History

    A Lifeline of the Course of My Libido

    What I Need My Partner to Know

    How to Get Me Off

    If/Then: My Brakes and Accelorators

    A Lifeline of Our Sex Life

    My Hopes for our Future Sex Life

    My Partners Favorite Sexual Flow

    A Comparison: How it is and How I'd Like it to Be

    My Brain During Sex

    Mosaic Profile of a Perfect Partner

    A Timelie of a Bad Sexual Memory

    What Happening in My Mind During Sex

    A Mosaic of My Sexual Body

    My First Sexual Experience

    A Timeline of a Great Memory

    What I Get Out of Sex

    My Sexual Values

    A Timeline of Sex in a Hookup

    A Comparison: How Sex Has Changed

    The Role of Sex in our Relationship

    A Timeline of Sex on Vacation

    A Timeline of a Day in Bed

    Something I’d Like to Try

    Something I Think About (But Don’t Want to Do)

    A Mosaic of My Sexual Self

    My Sexual Self

If you are ready to make your BioGraff, you can return

to the guide book, or continue reading instructions

here on your phone.

STEP 2

Story Setup and Structure

If you have a BioGraffs Mag Plus, you are ready for Step 2!

 

Or head back to the Virtual Tool to make your BioGraff online.

 

If you have a Mini, each person needs some plain paper and a pen.

Your story deserves a sturdy support. Consider putting a hardcover book or cutting board behind it, in case you want to move it around, which you might. Draw a frame around the edge of your paper. 

Write the title you chose at the top. 

 

This is the canvas for your visual story.

The contents of a BioGraffs Mag Plus laid out on table_edited.jpg

Think of the parts of this story and list them somewhere under the title. These parts can be thoughts, feelings, events, actions, objects, desires, circumstances... anything you need them to be. You don't need to use a lot of words - just enough so that you know what you mean. Think of it as a placeholder for a big concept.

 

It's natural to want to write the whole story on the page. Challenge yourself to stay with the visual. And don't worry: you can tell more of what each cube means when you tell your BioGraff story later.

 

Assign each one a color. 

It might look something like this:

Building a BioGraff with Mini_edited.jpg

STEP 3

Build Your BioGraff

Now you are ready to tell your visual story. Look through the BioGraff Storyboard Style cards for examples of how to do that.

 

Every story has a structure - think about how a movie sometimes shows you one scene, then goes back in time to tell how the protagonist got into that mess. Or a story is from one particular person's point of view, and then switches to another point of view. 

A visual story has a structure too. Even a single image. 

BioGraffs started out as an interactive art installation. Over the course of two years, we asked over a thousand people to tell a visual story using cubes to stand for parts of the story. Common strategies emerged. These eight cards represent the strategies we observed people using, and might help you think through how you want to represent your own story.

One of these styles might work for the story you want to tell, or you might have a style of your own in mind. 

Read more about what the Storyboard Styles card mean

Build your BioGraff however makes the most sense to you. Once you've decided what the colors mean, you are done with words. Let your instinct guide how you lay out the cubes. Let metaphor take over and express meaning in the cubes' relationships to one another.

As you become more experience building these visual stories, you will begin to see new ways to express your internal stories in a visual way.

Read more about what the Storyboard Styles mean

STEP 4

Sharing Your Story

Talking about your BioGraff creation is the BioGraff Superpower!

 

The BioGraffs Mag Plus comes with 2 magnetic whiteboards so you can do this activity with a partner or friend, and share your creations. Conversation becomes storytelling time and you each get to share your story completely. 

Feel more heard. SEE what each other means.

Use the two storytelling cards to keep focused on your role, whether you are the listener, or the storyteller

Using BioGraffs on your own.

You'll want your camera once again to take a picture of your BioGraff.

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You might want to share your BioGraff story with a significant person, or with your therapist. Your creation now becomes a visual aid that anchors your story. Tell the story it represents; say more about what each cube means, and why you laid them out the way you did. 

The visual gives you a way to zero in on details, but easily return to the big picture. It invites curiosity from the person you are sharing 

your story with.

It gives you a way to tell the whole story.

You might want to make another BioGraff, or even another one with the same title and a different Style Card. See what else can be revealed.

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I think one of the great ways that BioGraffs can help is to illuminate the disconnect between couples. Really helping them really understand how differently people can view a specific experience.

I like being able to work with my clients in sessioni to explore the meanings of their BioGraffs, and also recommend the online version.​ The materials are versatile enough to use in a variety of ways depending on my clients needs

Jennifer G., PhD, LCSW

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